The authoritarian style of parenting is the most strict. It allows for no room for “disobedience” or communication between the parent and the child. The children under this treatment can become rebellious, withdrawn, and have problems with authority. It parallels the “do as I say not as I do” strategy, resulting in one-way communication. On the other hand, authoritative parenting has two way communication. There are set guidelines that are expected to be followed, still there is room for communication and flexibility. The parenting style is explained to the child at every step of the way to avoid miscommunication. It also takes into consideration the child’s age. The final style of parenting is permissive parenting. There is little to no consequence for any actions taken by the child. Permissive parenting can be further divided into two subcategories:  permissive indulgence and permissive negligence. Permissive indulgent spoils the child and gives the child excessive attention. Permissive negligence does not give the child enough attention. Parents who practice permissive negligence typically do not care for the child. In both types of permissive parenting, the child tends to end up spoiled and bratty. 

Being raised with a mix of authoritative and authoritarian styles of parenting. Because it was the way in which I grew up, it doubtlessly influenced the way I am today. The way I treat others as well as the way I treat myself is reflective of the way I was raised. In the future, I see myself raising my own children the same way.  I don’t believe in extreme authoritative parenting, nor do I believe in permissive negligence or indulgence. In my opinion, the best compromise is the authoritative style of parenting. In some select situations, I may have to resort to authoritarian parenting. Still, communication is key in all types of relationships. When I teach my children using this parenting style, they would probably use the same on their children, and their children, etc. This way, I can pass on a culture of healthy communication into my own children.